Dear Eric: I’d like to offer my take on Love Language’s wife thinking his wild attraction to her is creepy and demeaning. I haven’t been married as many years, but I am living this. I am in menopause, which I am certain is the same issue she has. I have almost completely lost my sex drive. I just plain am not interested in it. I love my husband with my whole heart. He’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I couldn’t imagine life without him, but I just don’t care about sex anymore. I’m not attracted to anyone else either.
He knows I’m going through something. He just patiently waits until I initiate things. Sad but true. It may sound messed up but we both love each other deeply and are just wading through getting older together.
– Not Interested
Dear Not Interested: Thank you so much for bringing up menopause. Too many men overlook it or are undereducated about it. I hope the letter writer will do some research and ask the right questions. Dr. Jen Gunter’s “The Menopause Manifesto” comes highly recommended. And Ruth Devlin’s “Men… Let’s Talk Menopause” is a great resource.
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